Dear Morgan: Lost and Little

Dear Morgan,

I'm a longtime PE Inc reader. It's cool that you're doing an advice column, because I have a question that hasn't really been answered by the articles here, and it would have been weird to email it in to the other staff.

Here goes: I'm a heterosexual guy. I date casually. It's small, and I know it. Now what do I do with it?

Dear LAL,

First off: thanks for the letter! I can hold this up and waggle it in my boss' faces if they ever question why a penis enlargement site needs a sexual advice columnist on staff.

Now, let's get straight to your question: you've got a small penis, you acknowledge the fact, and you're wondering what to do with the darn thing.

I commend you on your approach – many men struggle with size issues, but few look to actually overcome them by becoming a better lover. You're doing well so far! Now the biology. You state very clearly that you like to put your less-than-average [whatever that means] penis into a heterosexual vagina.

So let's talk about vaginas! I'll give you the tip of a lifetime: a woman only has nerve endings in the first quarter, and final quarter of her vagina. This means that while you are inside of her, she can't necessarily feel very much in the very middle of the length of her vaginal canal, but she can feel you when you bump her cervix with the head of your penis and she registers friction and heat and pressure and all of those good things right at the entrance.

So if you're never going to be bumping that cervix, don't even worry about it. Plenty of girls hate the sensation [I am not one of them, but we can talk about alternatives to your actual dick in a moment].

Cervix forgotten, you're back where you started – the door you came in by. All the nerve endings are here. The G-spot isn't too far from here. Neither is the clit. You've got one prime zone, and you should be working it for all it's worth!

Now this isn't about going willy-nilly, but rather about asking your partner what she likes. Try simply rocking the head of your penis in and out, only entering about an inch or so each time. This gives you a great view, and leaves your hands free to caress that clit.

If you're worried about girth, then get the toys out of the box and go to town. Nothing makes me happier than a man who isn't necessarily the biggest in the bulge department, but who is completely game for hot sex with all the jelly dongs and vibrating bullets and tickling cock rings and....
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Getting carried away, but you get the idea. There are some neat toys that actually work like stretchy cock rings, but will vibrate against both your balls and her clit when you fuck her. If you're not going in deeply, then you need to have all your guns firing at once. She'll appreciate it, I guarantee.

There are some great toys that work well for both partners, including this one:

The We-Vibe is a knockout. I can't say enough good things about this baby, just believe that if you're looking for something that adds the feeling of girth and size without taking away from the enjoyment of straight-up sex, this is the ticket. we-vibe.com

The We-Vibe was invented by a fellow from Canada, where the winters are long and dark, this little darling works alongside you. She inserts it and then you slide in with it and plenty of lube for a buzzing thrumming revelation. Believe.

A side note: if you're having casual sex with a number of partners, be a gentleman and don't share sex toys. I don't care if you're washing them – unless they can go in an autoclave [i.e. are made of glass or steel or heat-resistant plastic], they shouldn't be hopping from crotch to crotch.